By Tiffany Gagnon
It’s time to face reality: you’re no longer a spring chicken, so it’s time to stop acting like one.
Although growing older is a fact of life, the way in which we age can largely be controlled by the decisions we make day-to-day. Bidding adieu to your thirties may mean that your body starts to tire more easily and your schedule is likely full of everyone else’s activities but your own. But that doesn’t mean you should toss your needs out the window without a fight.
If you want to feel the way you did in your twenties or thirties (or at least attempt to), it’s time to give your health a makeover. Here’s how. And to discover even more stomach-slimming tips, don’t miss these 55 Best Ways to Boost Your Metabolism
You may have felt unstoppable in your prime, going for five-mile runs and lifting heavy weights. But as we age, our bodies aren’t able to tolerate the same level of intensity. “As we get older, we might have different body aches and things might feel different. When you’re young you can get away with doing more high intensity workouts and I think people really rely on that to stay fit and thin. However, while movement is super important, we need to do what is good for our bodies as we get older,” says Isabel Smith, MS, RD, CDN, registered dietitian and founder of Isabel Smith Nutrition.
If you’ve been one to hit the gym extra hard after a weekend binge, you’re not alone. Often we turn to exercise to correct diet mistakes, but that solution doesn’t last forever. “I’ll see a lot of chronic exercisers that will use exercise as a form of getting rid of calories,” says Smith. “Our ability to do that as we get older changes — our bodies change, and our metabolism changes. It’s important to separate food versus exercise, and focus on eating well. Make exercise something that’s not going to beat your body up.” If you want to improve your health and melt the fat that matters most, don’t miss these 50 Ways to Lose 10 Pounds—Fast
It’s hard not to notice the changes our bodies go through, but the underlying causes might not be so obvious. “We can experience hormonal changes as we get older, which can change the way food is metabolized and the way our bodies use and produce energy,” says Smith. “As a result, it can be a frustrating reality for many when they notice more fat around their middle (especially for women).” Having a firm understanding that your body simply does not process food the same way can help frame your mindset toward a more structured and mindful lifestyle in which you’re able to make healthier choices.
It’s not an exact science, but changes in mood, energy or sleep can signify that your blood sugar might be out of whack. “It’s important that we’re eating consistently for blood-sugar balancing which is really the key [to staying fit in your forties]. The fat that tends to collect around the midsection is all about blood sugar and cortisol levels,” says Smith. A good way to stabilize things is to avoid the blood sugar spikes and crashes caused by empty carbs. Check out these 22 Carb-Cutting Hacks Diet Experts Love
for some tasty ways to dial back your intake.
Chances are it’s not the first time you’ve been told to scale back on the coffee, but it’s about time to do it! “For caffeine, I’d suggest about one glass per day. Depending on what you’re having that’s between 35-80 mg per day, but really no more than that,” says Smith. “Also know that decaf does not mean caffeine free.” Too much caffeine can cause insomnia, irritability and, when used as a quick fix for an energy dip rather than reaching for whole foods, you rob your body of a chance to fuel itself properly, which won’t fix the underlying fatigue.
It doesn’t matter how old we are, energy dips and wacky cravings can always throw us for a loop. “People don’t clinically have blood sugar control issues, but they can feel when their blood sugar is not well balanced,” says Smith. “Clues to that are feeling really fatigued throughout the day, waking up super tired, or having energy crashes. When it’s crashing we likely need to be fed, but what happens is that people caffeinate which can make it worse.” Reach for protein-rich or healthy-fat items like chicken, fish, or nuts when you feel your battery dying to level out your blood sugar. Chooose some of these 57 Healthiest Foods on the Planet
It’s easy to get pulled into the world of quick fixes and “magic pills”, but tread with caution when it comes to supplementation. “I recommend getting your vitamin D checked to see how much, or if, you need to supplement,” says Smith. “Most people can benefit from a probiotic or fish oil supplement, but it’s always wise to have a conversation with a professional about your diet and have someone with trained eyes look at your blood work.”
When you were 20, you might have gotten away with getting only four or five hours of sleep, but those days are long gone. You’re likely being pulled in a million different directions, but it’s crucial to your health and sanity that you schedule adequate sleep each night. “We need seven to eight hours of sleep per night,” says Smith. “Also, as we get older we might need more sleep,” says Smith. Check out these 20 Surprising Ways to Lose Weight While You Sleep
One of the biggest changes we experience in our 30s and 40s is how our body uses and processes calories. The ever-feared slowing of the metabolism is actually somewhat of a reality. “Focus on cutting out empty calories, because they add up quickly and don’t leave you feeling full. Avoid wasting your nutrient needs on empty calories items like chips, soft drinks, and latte syrups,” says Jessica Crandall, a Denver-based RD, Certified Diabetes Educator, and National Spokesperson for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics.
If you’ve never been a breakfast person, it’s better late than never. “Meal timings are really important for your metabolism,” says Crandall. “The best thing we can do is make sure that we’re re-fueling our bodies by eating breakfast within the 1st hour of waking up.” Doing that will avoid these 21 Things That Happen to Your Body When You Eat Breakfast
Not only is it important to kickstart your metabolism first thing in the morning with a healthy breakfast, but to keep it humming you’ve got to eat consistently throughout the day. Crandall suggests eating every four to six hours post-breakfast to keep your body fueled and using energy efficiently, which can assist with any fat burning goals.
You don’t have to be a bodybuilder to seek out protein consistently. The nutrient is crucial to maintaining and building muscle mass as we age. “It’s important to make sure we have 20 to 30 grams of protein at every meal. That’s ideal to help keep that muscle mass strong,” says Crandall. The more muscle you have, the less overall fat sits on your body. “Less muscle mass means a higher body fat percentage. At rest, lean body mass is active, burning calories, which is why having more lean muscle means a faster metabolism. Fat, at rest, is inactive, so overall metabolism is slower,” says Tanya Zuckerbrot, R.D. and founder of the popular F-Factor Diet. Here’s How to Eat Protein for Maximum Weight Loss
By now you probably know that antioxidants are healthy, but the nutrients are especially important as we age in order to prevent and fight against problems that may arise such as skin damage or even certain cancers. “I also think as we go into this age we’re thinking about antioxidants and cell health. Maybe our joints are aching a little bit more. So you should be incorporating a good amount of antioxidants from fruits, veggies, nuts and beans into your diet,” says Crandall.
In the last decade, fats became trendy. But regardless of hype, healthy fats like Omega-3 fatty acids are incredibly beneficial to your health and body functions. “By increasing Omega-3 intake, you can really help decrease joint pain. In your 20s, you never felt your joints at all — you just thought you were Gumby — but now is the time to be kinder to your joints in order to stay active so that you have the ability to do the things you like to do,” says Crandall. Check out these Surprising Omega 3 Foods for Weight Loss
It may suddenly feel like you have to erase everything you’ve learned in the last 20 years or so regarding exercise, but there’s no need to drop your favorite workouts — just modify. “Find different modifications for your activities and stay positive about it. You may not be able to go out and do the long runs you used to do or lift as heavy, but there are still great lower-impact options such as cycling or doing lighter lifting with more frequent reps,” says Crandall.
When you were younger the last thing you probably thought about was your heart health, but being mindful of your ticker is very important as we get older. The earlier you make heart health a priority, the better because prevention is the most effective measure you can take. “Focus on higher fiber foods and lower cholesterol foods to make sure your heart stays healthy. Also look to healthier fats and oils and try to omit some more processed meats like bacon,” says Crandall.
At this point in your life, you should also be thinking about bone density and what you can do to strengthen it. “After the age of 40, it is important to make sure you maintain healthy bones to avoid developing osteoporosis. It usually occurs in people over 50 and increases risk of fractures. To maintain bone density, consume 1,000 to 1,200 mg of calcium daily along with vitamin D and moderate exercise,” says Zuckerbrot. About three servings of dairy will suffice, but talk to your doctor if you need additional help fitting in your daily dose. And stock your kitchen with these 20 Calcium-Rich Foods
Older adults typically have a higher risk for vitamin B12 deficiency because our ability to absorb the vitamin decreases. “Vitamin B12 is important for proper nerve function and red blood cell production. Older adults should aim for 2.4 micrograms per day,” says Zuckerbrot. B12 can be found in dairy, eggs and fish. However, it’s always a good idea to consult a professional to make sure you’re getting an adequate amount and if not, they can suggest options for supplementation.
Your 40s can be a hectic time, thanks to career moves and family. The reality is that the chaos likely isn’t going away anytime soon. “I think it’s important to really realize that things are not going to get better, so prevention is your best key,” says Crandall. “Start working on yourself today versus 10 years from now. We know that, on average, people are gaining 1 to 2 pounds per year, so if you’re working toward it now and your metabolism is still functioning well, I think it’s really helpful in the long term.” Check out these 15 Weight-Loss Tips from People Who Lost 50 Pounds or More
Sometimes cleaning up your diet is as simple as buying new dishware. “Using smaller plates to cut back on your portion sizes can be helpful,” says Crandall. Ditch the 12-inchers and start using the 9-inch ones. A swap like this can add up to major calorie cutbacks.
You may feel like you’re juggling everyone else’s priorities but your own, but it’s important to realize you don’t have to go about your own goals solo. “Our 30s and 40s can be a pretty busy time for work, family and friends, and so planning in advance can be really helpful,” says Crandall. “Even if you’re meal prepping with friends, meet up on a Sunday to do a healthy meal swap for the week. With something like that, at least you’re eating at home versus going out to eat.” Plan a menu full of these 26 Foods to Keep You Looking and Feeling Young
Just because you put everyone else’s needs first doesn’t mean you have to throw your own needs out the window. More than ever, it’s important to make room for yourself. “I think that between work, social life and family, it doesn’t necessarily get easier, so you have to advocate for yourself,” says Crandall. “Make sure you’re getting good sleep, that you’re being active and that you’re incorporating those key pieces in a healthy lifestyle. It’s also important to make time to do the things you enjoy doing, rather than beating yourself up at the gym, when you have a free moment.”
If you find yourself cutting your runs or walks short due to boredom, recruiting a friend can help you get to the finish line. “Enlisting your friends to go on a walk can make it more entertaining for you, which can actually end up making the activity or walk last longer,” says Crandall. If plans don’t match up, try calling a friend on your daily walk to help make the activity more enjoyable so you’ll stay engaged and follow through. Try these tips on How Celebs Stay Slim
It’s hard enough gathering the whole family for a meal and finding the time to make it in the first place, so don’t beat yourself up if you skipped that fancy lasagna recipe tonight. “Try to find the most bang for your buck foodwise,” says Crandall. “Look for things that are convenient to make versus a two-page recipe. Most of the time, that isn’t really feasible anyway.” Cutting back on the prep will make achieving your health goals that much easier.
What better way to reduce time spent making healthy meals than by delegating the responsibility? “There’s a shift toward pre-made foods or meal-delivery services,” says Crandall. “For families who eat at home, this could be helpful, as long as they’re catering to their nutrition needs.”
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What may have worked for you 20 years ago, may not cut it anymore. It’s vital to consult an expert when it comes to nutrition to ensure that you’re meeting the needs of your changing body. “Meeting with a Registered Dietitian can help you navigate the food base that’s out there, whether it’s food you make at home or if you’re eating out. They can give some good advice for getting healthy food on the go and point out healthy food choices overall,” says Crandall.
Whether you’re able to run, walk, swim or ride a bike–whatever you do, don’t stop moving. “Once we reach age 30, our bodies start losing muscle mass — about half a pound of muscle a year,” says Zuckerbrot. “This results in a slower metabolism. Inactive people can lose up to 3-5% of muscle mass per year. Staying active can help reduce this.” Try these 7 Ways to Make Your Workout 500% More Effective
If you haven’t realized yet, hitting the gym extra-hard won’t undo the damage of that burger and fries the same way it did 20 years ago. “If a person eats the same exact thing they ate in their 40s and 50s as they did in their 20s, they’ll experience weight gain because their metabolism is slower and because they have naturally less lean muscle mass,” says Zuckerbrot. Get serious and start being more mindful and choosy with your food options. Fine-tuning your eating habits now will allow your body to function better long term.
We experience a big change in the ratio of body fat to muscle as we age because it becomes more difficult to build and maintain muscle mass. “After the age of 40, people should try to maintain, if not increase, their muscle stores and lean body mass,” says Zuckerbrot. “More lean muscle will lower body-fat percentage and keep metabolism from slowing down. Strength or resistance training is more effective than cardiovascular activity in preservation of precious muscle mass. A study done by the Journal of Applied Physiology showed that resistance training significantly increased lean body mass in participants, while cardiovascular exercise significantly decreased it.”
Any kind of movement is beneficial to your overall health, but beware of the appetite-boosting effect of a heavy cardio workout if you’re trying to maintain or lose weight. “Cardio stimulates appetite and people end up eating more sometimes than if they hadn’t worked out,” says Zuckerbrot. “People often feel entitled to eat more post-activity, overestimate calories burned in the gym and underestimate caloric intake.”
If you’ve never logged what you eat, doing so might increase your weight loss or fitness results tenfold. Food journaling is a good way to stay accountable to what you eat and how often you work out. By writing down your progress and reviewing it regularly, you can better assess your starting point and pick out any areas that may be holding you back.
Going to the gym will strengthen your body, and meditating will work out your mind. Research published in JAMA Internal Medicine
suggests that taking time to meditate daily can help reduce stress, anxiety, depression and even pain. If you’ve never tried meditating, yoga can also be a good practice to start with to help ease you into that type of mindful state. For even more ways to stay calm and lose weight, dig into these 22 Best and Worst Foods for Stress
It can be incredibly beneficial to consult a trainer on matters of fitness and to reach out to a dietitian to help put together a healthy eating plan, but when it comes to basic health practices you should be seeing a doctor annually as a method of prevention. “It’s important to regularly check in with your health-care team as we get older. Everyone should have a primary care doctor or internist who knows their medical history, as well as specialists, as need be. It’s important also to listen to our bodies. If something hurts, don’t ignore it—It hurts for a reason, get it checked out!” says Zuckerbrot.
Fiber was important two decades ago, and it’s still important now. “Fiber helps keep bowel function regular, helps lower risk for colon cancer, and is good for overall heart health,” says Zuckerbrot. Aim for over 30 grams of fiber per day. Fiber is found in fruits like raspberries, vegetables like artichokes, whole grains like farro and quinoa, and beans, peas, and legumes. That’s only one of the 50 Best Weight Loss Tips Ever
Although we’re not saying you should need to double your banana consumption, it is important that you increase your potassium intake. “Increasing potassium intake and lowering sodium or salt intake can help lower risk for high blood pressure,” says Zuckerbrot. Good sources of potassium include most fruits and vegetables like bananas, potatoes, avocados and spinach.